Simple. Relaxed. Real.
Family photos should be full of giggles, not stress. This guide will help you feel prepared, confident, and excited, without overthinking a thing.
If you only read one thing, read this: you don’t need perfect kids or perfect outfits to get beautiful photos. Just show up and enjoy your family. I’ll handle the rest.
Because a Family Session Should be Full of Giggles
Capture the love without the stress
Try not to plan anything rushed before or after your session.
A calm start makes a big difference.
Keep the Day Simple
Well-rested kids and full bellies go a long way.
Bring snacks just in case.
Prioritize Rest + Snacks
We’ll schedule around naps and mealtimes whenever possible.
Happy kids = smoother sessions.
Choose a Great Time
Quick Prep Checklist
Before Your Session
This comes with a delivery of our style guide and wedding magazine to help you plan and prep for things as best you possibly can!
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frustrated by this particular situation and overwhelmed?
3. Maybe they're feeling this way
and you want it to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
2. Another specific pain point here
You want these to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
1. perhaps list some frustrations
that one might currently be facing in their BUSINESS
THE CHALLENGES AND pain points
You want to be energized, refreshed, alert, and open, so steer clear of the tough workouts the day or two before your shoot to avoid stiffness that'll make movement awkward in photos.
Bring the Energy
The week leading up to photos should be filled with drinking lots of water and avoiding alcohol and greasy/ salty foods. All that water and a clean diet will prevent puffiness, dehydration, and red eyes.
Look and Feel your Best
Do not schedule anything else on the day of your shoot. You never know how much more time we'll need to capture the feeling, and this is one of the major components of your big day you won't want to rush.
Leave your Calendar Empty
tips and Tricks to make family photos a breeze
An Annual Ritual You Can Cherish Forever
This comes with a delivery of our style guide and wedding magazine to help you plan and prep for things as best you possibly can!
4. engagement session
frustrated by this particular situation and overwhelmed?
3. Maybe they're feeling this way
and you want it to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
2. Another specific pain point here
You want these to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
1. perhaps list some frustrations
that one might currently be facing in their BUSINESS
THE CHALLENGES AND pain points
Almost every single person (even actors and models) has a fear of having their photo taken. Know that you're not alone, and my number one goal is to make you feel comfortable.
You're in a Safe Space
I will be showing you the back of the camera along the way, don't hesitate to be specific with me about what you like and don't like. It's about creating a vision together.
It's a Collaboration
I will give you directions and suggestions for a motion to make your images come to life. The most important thing is to focus on each other.
No Forced Poses
what to expect during your family photography session
Where Love is the Main Character
This comes with a delivery of our style guide and wedding magazine to help you plan and prep for things as best you possibly can!
4. engagement session
frustrated by this particular situation and overwhelmed?
3. Maybe they're feeling this way
and you want it to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
2. Another specific pain point here
You want these to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
1. perhaps list some frustrations
THE CHALLENGES AND pain points
that one might currently be facing in their BUSINESS
Everyone has a double chin. Keep those shoulders pulled back and downward while sliding your chin forward (some know this as "the turtle") to engage a more flattering pose. And remember, we will always show you what you look like on the camera, so you're not guessing.
Bending at the hip will bring your face closer to the camera without collapsing your posture.
How’s your jaw doing? Intentionally relax it. Curl your tongue to the back of your mouth and this will relax the muscles in your neck
Try to imagine a string pulling you upwards through the top of your head, making you long and tall. Looking for a long and graceful neck? Pull your shoulders and shoulder blades back and down.
I aim to capture the natural, and I don't use photoshop to alter the image. I will remind you of your posture throughout the session because it's the best way to sculpt the body in-camera and without photoshop. There is an element to many photoshoots that is somewhat like yoga or finding peace and comfort within the tension.
Tech-neck is real and I understand, use these tips to help your posture.
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If you’re stressing about outfits you’re not alone. These simple guidelines will help you choose outfits that photograph beautifully and feel like you.
Shoes and accessories show up in photos — especially in movement.
Choose:
✓ Neutral-toned shoes that match the outfit style
✓ Simple jewelry and hair accessories
✓ Pieces that complement, not distract
Avoid athletic shoes unless they truly fit the overall look. When in doubt, keep it simple.
Shoes & Accessories Matter More Than You Think
Use patterns sparingly.
Best choices:
✓ Small florals
✓ Soft stripes
✓ Subtle prints
If one person wears a pattern, keep the rest of the family more neutral so nothing competes for attention.
Be Thoughtful With Patterns
Layers photograph beautifully and add depth to your images.
Great options include:
✓ Light jackets, cardigans, or sweaters
✓ Dresses or tops with texture (linen, knit, soft cotton)
✓ Simple layering pieces for kids
Layers also give us flexibility if the weather changes during your session.
Add Layers & Texture
If something feels uncomfortable, it shows.
Choose clothing that:
✓ Let you move, sit, and play comfortably
✓ Allow kids to run, wiggle, and be themselves
✓ Don’t require constant fixing or pulling
When everyone is comfortable, expressions feel natural and relaxed.
Comfort Is Key (Especially for Kids)
Simple, classic pieces always photograph best and age well over time.
Try to avoid:
✓ Neon or super bright colors
✓ Large logos or graphics
✓ Very bold or trendy patterns
Timeless outfits keep the focus on your family, not your clothes.
Choose Timeless
Over Trendy
Choose a simple color palette and mix tones instead of dressing everyone the same.
Consider:
✓ Neutrals (cream, beige, tan, gray)
✓ Soft colors (sage, dusty blue, muted rust)
✓ One main color + 1–2 supporting colors
When in doubt, lay everyone’s outfits on the bed together. If they look good side by side, they’ll photograph beautifully.
Coordinate, Don’t Match
What to wear for your Family Session
The Part Everyone Worries About
Selecting the right clothing for family photos is a crucial element in capturing timeless photos. While an outfit may look great in person, its impact on camera can be quite different. Opting for neutral and muted colors ensures a timeless quality, allowing the focus to remain on the faces and interactions within the photograph rather than on distracting patterns or bright hues. If you plan to print and frame your images think about the design and color choices in your home. Choose outfits that compliment your style and tone.
When You’re Unsure, Ask Me You don’t have to figure this out alone.
If you’re debating between outfits or want reassurance, I’m always happy to help. You can send photos or describe your options, and I’ll guide you.
Why it matters
Because They’re Part of the Family, Too
Some of the most important members of your family have four paws, and we love when you include them in your session.
We recommend beginning your session with your pet before having a friend or family member take them home. This gives us time to capture those sweet moments together while keeping the rest of your session relaxed.
A little preparation goes a long way a good walk beforehand, their favorite treats or toy, and a little grooming can help them feel their best.
And remember, perfection isn’t the goal. The playful, wiggly, imperfect moments are often the ones you’ll treasure most.
Your Fur Babies
For Families Who Value the Beauty in Everyday Moments
Slightly more definition than everyday makeup tends to photograph well.
Defined eyes help draw attention to your eyes.
Bold lip color can brighten your smile.
Makeup Tips
Lay out your outfits and everything you need the night before.
Get a good night’s sleep so you look rested.
Eat a hearty breakfast so you have plenty of energy
Start the Day Relaxed
To feel and look your best (if it feels right for you):
Schedule haircuts about a week before the photos
Trim facial hair
Consider any self-care that helps you feel confident (brows, nails, skincare)
Treat Yourself
The night before, press and lay out everything you need so you're calm in the morning.
Getting Ready for Your Session
Finishing touches
- Snacks & drinks (non-messy works best)
- A favorite small toy or comfort item
- An extra outfit or layer (especially for kids)
- A relaxed mindset. Seriously, that’s the most important one
What to Bring?
I’ll guide you with prompts that create natural connection and movement.
Trust the process
Wiggly kids, shy moments, and laughter all photograph beautifully. Some of the best images come from in-between moments.
Don’t worry about
“perfect” behavior
Focus on each other, not the camera. The key is to be yourself and enjoy the moment.
Be present
On Session Day
I don’t use Photoshop to alter how you look. Instead, I guide you with flattering posture and natural posing so we capture your family beautifully and authentically.
Will you use Photoshop to alter the image?
A:
I’ll be showing you photos I take along the way, so you can tell me what you like and don’t like. The photo session is a collaboration, and we’ll create your vision together.
What if I don’t like what you take?
Nope. I’ll tell you exactly what to do, and nothing will feel awkward or forced.
Do I need to practice poses?
We’ll reschedule if needed.
Your session (and investment) is always protected.
What if the weather doesn’t cooperate?
That’s completely normal and expected. I work with kids exactly as they are.
What if my kids don’t cooperate?
(and Peace of Mind)
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Your family doesn’t need to be calmer, better dressed, or more “photo-ready” than they are right now.
The most meaningful photos come from connection, not perfection and that’s exactly what we’ll focus on.
I can’t wait to photograph your family.