Capture the love without the stress
The Needs to Know to Feel Natural & Not Nervous
Let's be real - weddings, elopements, and engagement sessions can be stressful. If photos aren't your forte, then you would probably rather be organizing your sock drawer than putting yourself in front of a camera. It took many photoshoots for me
to learn a solid set of tips and tricks that make this a pain-free and even enjoyable experience.
No matter what you do during the day of your shoot,
remember to have an open mind and stay focused on all
the positivity that surrounds your love.
A Moment You Can Cherish Forever
tips and Tricks to make your engagement session a breeze
Leave your Calendar Empty
Do not schedule anything else on the day of your shoot. You never know how much more time we'll need to capture the feeling, and this is one of the major components of your big day you won't want to rush.
Look and Feel your Best
The week leading up to photos should be filled with drinking half your weight in ounces of water (ex. If you are 150lb, you should drink 75 oz of water a day) and avoid alcohol and greasy/ salty foods. All that water and a clean diet will prevent puffiness, dehydration, and red eyes.
Bring the Energy
You want to be energized, refreshed, alert, and open, so steer clear of the tough workouts the day or two before your shoot to avoid stiffness that'll make movement awkward in photos.
THE CHALLENGES AND pain points
that one might currently be facing in their BUSINESS
1. perhaps list some frustrations
You want these to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
2. Another specific pain point here
and you want it to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
3. Maybe they're feeling this way
frustrated by this particular situation and overwhelmed?
4. engagement session
This comes with a delivery of our style guide and wedding magazine to help you plan and prep for things as best you possibly can!
Where Love is the Main Character
what to expect during your engagement photography session
No Forced Poses
I will never force you to stand in particular poses. I will give you directions and suggestions for a motion to make your images come to life. The most important thing is to focus on how happy you are.
It's a Collaboration
I will be showing you the back of the camera along the way, don't hesitate to be specific with me about what you like and don't like. It's about creating a vision together.
You're in a Safe Space
Almost every single person (even actors and models) has a fear of having their photo taken. Know that you're not alone, and my number one goal is to make you feel comfortable.
that one might currently be facing in their BUSINESS
THE CHALLENGES AND pain points
1. perhaps list some frustrations
You want these to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
2. Another specific pain point here
and you want it to be very telling of where this person might be at emotionally and where you once were.
3. Maybe they're feeling this way
frustrated by this particular situation and overwhelmed?
4. engagement session
This comes with a delivery of our style guide and wedding magazine to help you plan and prep for things as best you possibly can!
Tech-neck is real and I understand, use these tips to help your posture.
I aim to capture the natural, and I don't use photoshop to alter the image. I will remind you of your posture throughout the session because it's the best way to sculpt the body in-camera and without photoshop. There is an element to many photoshoots that is somewhat like yoga or finding peace and comfort within the tension.
Try to imagine a string pulling you upwards through the top of your head, making you long and tall. Looking for a long and graceful neck? Pull your shoulders and shoulder blades back and down.
How’s your jaw doing? Intentionally relax it. Curl your tongue to the back of your mouth and this will relax the muscles in your neck
Bending at the hip will bring your face closer to the camera without collapsing your posture.
Everyone has a double chin. Keep those shoulders pulled back and downward while sliding your chin forward (some know this as "the turtle") to engage a more flattering pose. And remember, we will always show you what you look like on the camera, so you're not guessing.
"She will make sure she understands your vision while making you feel comfortable in whatever setting. Before both shoots we spoke ahead of time and had a plan of what we were going to do. Bethany asks great questions and that really helps the process. Our pictures came out simply classic and we are still so happy with them, years later."
— AMANDA
Outfit Advice
What to Wear for Your Engagement Session
Why it matters
Selecting the right clothing for engagement photos is a crucial element in capturing timeless photos. While an outfit may look great in person, its impact on camera can be quite different. Opting for neutral and muted colors ensures a timeless quality, allowing the focus to remain on the faces and interactions within the photograph rather than on distracting patterns or bright hues. Engagement photos are an investment in preserving moments that will be cherished for years to come, and choosing clothing that complements rather than competes with the central subject – your and your partner – is key.
Options
It's a great idea to bring two clothing options with you. This gives us the opportunity to work together at the location to choose the outfits that will best complement the setting. If you're not comfortable changing on-site, no worries! You can take pictures of both outfit options in advance and then share them with me. This way, I can provide helpful input and suggestions before we even get to the location. Our goal is to make sure your chosen wardrobe not only reflects your personal style but also blends seamlessly with the surroundings, resulting in photographs that capture you and your partners essence in the most flattering way.
Personality
Your comfort is key because it directly influences the atmosphere of our shoot.Your clothing should be a reflection of your personalities, acting as a subtle amplifier rather than overshadowing who you are. When you're at ease in your outfits, it allows your true selves to shine through. I want your personalities to take center stage, and your clothing choices are there to enhance, not overpower.
Logistics
Expect the unexpected and be ready for anything by packing a change of clothes, make up for touch ups, and water. Life is full of surprises, and having these essentials on hand can be a lifesaver during your engagement session. Come prepared, and let's capture the genuine joy and laughter that make your relationship truly unique.
Movement
When selecting your wardrobe, consider how different fabrics may affect your ability to move freely and naturally. Softer, more breathable materials allow for a greater range of movements. If it's a cooler day, layering is a fantastic option to add both style and warmth. For warmer weather, lighter fabrics like linen can keep you comfortable and showcase movement gracefully. A quick reminder: please ensure your clothing is wrinkle-free by ironing or steaming before the session, as post-session editing may not fully remedy wrinkles.
Colors
It's important to be mindful of certain colors, particularly fluorescents, as they can cast strong tones, affecting the overall color balance. Shades like pink, bright red, orange, and yellow may have a bigger effect. To ensure flattering result, I recommend choosing colors that complement your skin tones. If your skin tone is on the lighter side, it's generally advisable to steer clear of intense reds, oranges, yellows, and pinks. However, for those with olive or darker skin tones, these vibrant colors can often work wonderfully.
Patterns
Steer clear of busy patterns, as they can be distracting and take the focus away from the genuine moments we aim to capture. If you're considering patterns, opt for smaller, more subtle designs to maintain a cohesive and elegant look. Avoid multiple patterns with you and your partners outfits. I recommend avoiding stripes on adults, as they can sometimes resemble barcodes in photos. By choosing simpler, coordinating attire, we can ensure that the focus remains on the warmth and connection with your partner, resulting in photographs that stand the test of time.
Accessories
From stylish hats to a cozy picnic setup or even including your beloved dog, these elements can add a personal touch and enhance the overall charm of our session. Accessories not only contribute to the visual appeal but can also reflect your relationships unique personality and interests. Feel free to bring props that hold special meaning to you.
“ In addition to providing so many photos that were even better than we could have imagined, she also is a very kind and calming person to be around, and handled everything so smoothly even when we felt stressed in certain moments. Her photos are absolutely beautiful and will be wonderful memories of our day!”
“Without a doubt, she's amazing. She makes you feel at ease and casual, like you're hanging out with a dear friend, whether you know her or not. She has a perfect mix of documentary and styled photography that feels very natural. She's creative, kind, and flexible. She works hard to give her clients exactly what they want, and is great at communicating her vision. Book Bethany, you will NOT be sorry you did!”
For Couples Who Value the Beauty in Every Step of Their Love Story
Finishing touches
Getting Ready for Your Session
The night before, press and lay out everything you need so you're calm in the morning.
Hair & Makeup
If you're not already hiring someone to handle your makeup, you'll want to remember to add a bit more than you usually do (if you don't wear any, wear what makes you comfortable). Note that eyeliner on the upper lid and a contrasting eyeshadow color in your crease draws attention to your eyes, and a bright and bold lipstick makes your teeth look whiter.
Glasses
If you feel your best with your frames on, make sure they have a non-reflective lens or coating; otherwise, we'll miss your eyes with spontaneous glares. You can have a coating added if you don't already have one.
Undergarments
When it comes to undergarments, consider what will be flattering and the look you're going for. Do you want Spanx for slimming, a slip for smoothing, a bra that's minimizing, or has extra padding? Purchase items that are close to your skin tone.
Treat Yourself!
To those who don’t usually pamper themselves, don’t feel shy. Get a nice haircut, trim your beard and ear hairs, wax your eyebrows, get a facial or a manicure.
Get a good night of sleep and a hearty breakfast so that you have energy during a long period when you may not have an opportunity to stop and snack.
“I've never enjoyed getting my photo taken and I felt totally at ease with Bethany.”
The results were so beautiful and natural. They remain some of my favorite photos of my husband and myself. She captured each of us so naturally and I genuinely enjoyed the time we had with her. I would recommend Bethany to anyone and everyone!
— Molly
“She let us be ourselves and be silly and then be serious, and somehow she managed to take the most amazing shots of us. "
There was not a single bad photo in the lot, and most importantly, we just had an absolute blast and it was all totally natural. I cannot recommend Bethany enough!
— randi
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I'm Bethany
With over a decade of photography expertise, I've been the guiding lens behind countless engagement sessions. Now, I'm ready to channel my 13 years of experience into capturing your love.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What time do the sessions take place?
The best time for our session is early in these morning, as the light is beautiful, or right before sunset.
What if we need to cancel or reschedule or if it rains?
If you need to cancel, we will keep your 50% retainer. If you need to reschedule,
your retainer will be applied to your new session date, and a new contract will be
drafted for any change items. If your original photographer isn’t available, we will find another one.
Where does the photo session take place?
You can choose to have your engagement photography session either at your home for a personal touch or at a location that has special meaning to both you and your partner.
How secure are my photos?
I back up the photos from your engagement session the night of your session. I have a rigorous backup system and have them stored in 3 separate places before your photos are delivered, and two backup options after your images are delivered.
Can you photoshop us to look skinnier/have clear skin/etc?
I pose you and your partner in a way that makes you look your best without needing Photoshop. I do remove blemishes and apply skin smoothing when required.
How does the album design process work?
You will select your favorite images through the Pic-Time platform, and then we will begin the design process. Most clients only have one round of edits, and then their final design is ready for print!
