Capture the love without the stress
Effortless. Thoughtful. True to You.
Your engagement session should feel easy, fun, and authentically you, not awkward or overplanned. This guide is designed to help you feel prepared and confident, so when session day arrives, you can simply show up and enjoy the experience together.
Remember: you don’t need to know how to pose or what to do. I’ll guide you every step of the way.
What to Expect From Your Engagement Session
Your session will be relaxed and natural, not stiff or overly posed.
I’ll guide you with prompts that create natural connection and movement, no forced poses.
My number one goal is to make you feel comfortable. There’s no rush, we’ll take our time and enjoy the process.
I’ll show you images along the way so you feel confident about the vision we are creating together. Don’t hesitate to be specific about what you like.
You can expect:
When to Schedule Your Engagement Session
Sessions are typically scheduled 4–8 months before your wedding
Many couples use these photos for save-the-dates, invitations, or wedding websites
Aim for golden hour (about 1–2 hours before sunset) for the most flattering light
Morning sessions are beautiful for softer light and fewer crowds
If you’re unsure, I’ll help you pick the best timing for your schedule and wedding plans.
Choosing the Right Location
Your engagement photos should feel personal and reflect your story.
Scenic outdoor spaces (fields, lakes, parks, trails)
Urban settings (downtown streets, architecture, cafés)
A meaningful location where you met, got engaged, or love spending time together
Great options include:
Tips to consider:
Decide on the overall vibe you want (romantic, playful, modern, natural)
Make sure your outfit choices work with the location
our most common question
What Should We Wear
Coordinate, Don’t Match
Choose a muted color palette rather than identical outfits.
Think:
✓ Neutrals (cream, beige, tan, gray)
✓ Soft tones (sage, dusty blue, muted rust)
✓ One main color with 1–2 complementary tones
Lay your outfits next to each other; if they look good together, they’ll photograph beautifully.
Choose Timeless Over Trendy
Classic pieces photograph best and won’t feel dated years from now.
Try to avoid:
✓ Neon or very bright colors
✓ Large logos or bold graphics
✓ Extremely trendy patterns or styles
Timeless outfits, so the focus is on you
Comfort Is Essential
Clothing choices should feel comfortable and not overpower your look.
Choose clothing that:
✓ Allows movement and walking
✓ Doesn’t need constant adjusting
✓ Feels natural to wear and matches your personality
When you're at ease in your outfits, it allows your true selves to shine through.
Add Layers & Texture
Layers add depth and visual interest.
Great options:
✓ Jackets, cardigans, or light sweaters
✓ Textured fabrics like linen, knit, or soft cotton
Layers also give us flexibility if the temperature changes during your session.
Choosing Colors & Patterns
Steer clear of busy patterns and overly bright colors as they can distract from the genuine moments we want to capture.
Things to consider:
✓ Opt for smaller, more subtle designs for a cohesive and elegant look.
✓ Choose shades that flatter your skin tone: lighter skin tones look best in softer colors for lighter skin tone, brighter hues often suit olive or darker tones
Shoes & Accessories Matter
Shoes and accessories appear more often than you might expect.
Choose:
✓ Neutral, clean shoes that match your outfit style
✓ Simple jewelry and hair accessories
✓ Pieces that complement rather than distract
Selecting the right clothing for engagement photos is crucial in capturing timeless photos. The goal is to look like yourselves, feel comfortable, and coordinate without overthinking. Most couples arrive in one outfit and change into their second option halfway through the session. Feel free to bring meaningful props. Stylish hats, a cozy picnic setup, or even your fur baby can add personality and charm.
Preparing for Your Session
The night before, press and lay out everything you need so you're calm in the morning.
Grooming & Self-Care
Schedule haircuts about a week before the photos
Trim facial hair
Consider self-care that helps you feel confident (brows, nails, skincare)
Start the Day Relaxed
Lay out your outfits and accessories the night before
Make sure everything is pressed and fits comfortably
Get a good night’s sleep so you look rested.
Makeup Tips
Aim for a polished version of your everyday look
Slightly more definition than usual photographs well
Bring a brush, hair tie, or touch-up items just in case
Glasses
If you feel your best with your frames on, don't worry. I retouch each image to make sure there is no glare in your images.
If you have transitions then please consider removing them while taking photos outside. They transition even in the shade.
Keep your schedule open the day of your session so you don’t feel rushed or frazzled.
Steer clear of tough workouts a day or two before the session so you aren’t stiff or sore.
Drink lots of water and avoid alcohol and greasy/salty foods the week before to prevent puffiness, dehydration, and red eyes.
First Things First
Frequently Asked Questions
How many images do we receive?
It depends on how long we stay in one spot, but anywhere from 30-75 images per hour!
What if we need to cancel or reschedule or if it rains?
If you need to cancel, we will keep your 50% retainer. If you need to reschedule, your retainer will be applied to your new session date. If your original photographer isn’t available, we will find someone else on our team.
Can we use these photos for save-the-dates or our wedding website?
Yes of course! You will have access to all your images and can share them wherever you'd like!
when do we get the images?
You will get previews in 5 business days and the full gallery in 3 weeks or less!
Can you photoshop us to look skinnier/have clear skin/etc?
I pose you and your partner in a way that makes you look your best without needing Photoshop. If you have retouching requests, let me know before I begin the editing process.
a final note from bethany
You don’t need to perform, pose, or be anything other than yourselves.
The best engagement photos come from connection, trust, and being present together — and that’s exactly what we’ll focus on.
We can’t wait to photograph this season of your story.
- Bethany Michaela
